| Location | Clapham |
| Age | 22 years |
| Date of Birth | 6/1984 |
| Date of Death | 11/2006 |
| Visitors | 7,365 since 23/02/2007 |
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AKA:Stutz...GONE WAY TOO SOON
My brother Arian Julius Arthur was born on 7th june 1984 to two loving parents Wilma and Bertram, he has a sister Juanita(me)aged 28 and little brother Tirell aged 11(ages at the time of his death) and many, aunties, uncles, cousins, Grandparents and friends Galore, also his girlfriend Shireen who he cared a lot about. Arian grew up in Clapham, he went to triangle nursery and st.marys primary school where he had many many friends and on to Salesian College secondary school where more friendships grew, it was friendships that became like his extended family. Arians friends nicknamed him stutz because he has a stutter and i can tell you it never detered him, he was always confident, strong minded and a loving person who was always there for the people who meant a lot to him.
I can honestly say Arian is a decent, kind, funloving and special young man and no one will ever meet anyone else like him. He has that certain something about him that made people drawn to him(the turn out of his funeral confirmed this), he is such a funny character always made people laugh and the cheeky smile he has...just seeing him smile made you smile. He was never short of female attention and oh boy did he love the ladies but not one could compare to the love he has for our mum, they were each others rock and he was constantly there for her and vice versa. My mum is blessed as is he at the special relationship they have..that bond will never be broken because his spirit still lives on and mum will meet him again one day.
Arians send off was one i have never seen before and dont believe i ever will. The church was massive but so many people were standing outside, the queue went all the way out to the pavement, the church was totally jam packed. On the day of Arians funeral it was forecast wind, rain and cold but Arian is so special i just knew he would not let it rain on his day, It turned out to be a beautiful spring summers day, the sun shone down so brightly on him and all of us. If there is such a thing as good funeral then my brother surely had the best, its just a shame it wasnt his wedding, birthday or his childs christening(the child he didnt get a chance to have).
He is also an avid Man U supporter( he be happy to know they won the premiership 2007). Arian came through his fair share of hard times as he went through a mini breakdown a few years back, but Arians strength in character ensured he pulled through and he is an inspiration to all that know him(which makes it even harder to take that his life was ended so senselessly after all he had been through and came through), He made the most of his life he went to egypt over a year ago and Aiyanappa 2 months before he passed on and went out most weekends and done whatever made himself and others happy. HE JUST LOVED LIVING HIS LIFE!! He never let me down he was always there for me and looked out for me, always so protective even though i am 6 years olders than him(typical Ari). Our little brother T misses the play fights, Pro revoluton games on the PS2 and the love they shared, it breaks my heart to see him cry for his brother -Just 3 days before Arian died ,out of the blue he called his little brother over and said -i know i dont say it often bro but you know i love you-dont you\\\" and he gave him a big meaningful hug, thatsthe kind of person Ari is, and at least T has that memory..i wasnt there but my mum said it was so nice to see and it made her get up and kiss Ari.
Arian was taken away tragically and senselesly from us on the 18th Nov 2006. Those cowardly vermins that call themselves men crept up behind him as the cowards the are and shot him twice in the BACK while he was DANCING on night out celebrating his friends 23rd birthday in east london for what we can determin was for no reason at all. (we can only wish he stayed in south like he usually did). He never had a clue he was in danger, he was totally oblivious to it, the police say it was nothing more than jealousy (shame on them) and his friends also say the same because he didnt get into an argument with anyone, he was just dancing, talking to a girl, being himself(being Arian) and thats what they couldnt handle. They stole his life with no regard for the people that loves and needs him in their life, they have caused devastation that is undescribable and a constant ache that will never leave us, our mum is in pieces but i know Arian will give her the strength to get her and us through this in time. These vermins that took my brothers life were so jealous of him and knew they could never walk in his shoes as he has a heart of gold, the looks and the confidence they could never compete with. Although Arian is at peace we will miss him forever but i also know he is too good for this world and for those of us who were blessed enough to know him-theres one thing they cant steal away from us and that is our memories. Arian sure is Our Loss but heavens gain-heaven have an angel. There is much more i can say but for all of us that know him PLEASE LET HIS MEMORY AND SPIRIT LIVE ON..Arian will be missed but NEVER EVER forgotten. PEOPLE PLEASE START TALKING- MY BROTHER CANNOT DIE IN VAIN, HE DID NOT DESERVE TO GO OUT THIS WAY, NOT HIM!! He had so much more to live for..
I just want to say Arian came to my mum a few days before we lay him to rest and he told her -mum if you could only see where i am mum, its so so nice mum- he said this 3 times to her, so those bastards have not won, he is in a wonderful peaceful place that they will never get to because they will be burning in hell. Arian will give us the strength to get through this until its time to meet him again.
Justice will be done for you Ari...love you - its still so unbelievable that were stolen from all of us and it will always be until i get to see your cheeky smile again x
Arians\\\'s trial was due to start in Jan 14th 08 and thrown out of court in that day due to lack of evidence and an anonomus phone call made 3 days ealier- what a joke. So these murdering scums are laughing at Ari,us and the crap justice system that lets them get away with cold blooded murder. We are not giving up- Arian will get his trial one day.
People need to put down the guns & knives how many more inncoent people are going to lose their lives to senseless violence, how many more parents have to bury their child due to evil actions of others, how many more familes have to go through what my family is going through..WHEN THE HELL IS IT GOING TO STOP!!...Too many young guys are losing their life for nothing and my brother is one of them. It should have never happened to a soul like him.
Hi I went to salesians college with stutz we named him that me cafun tangwa joey mc carthy amofa swayby ovil .we use to every morning meet up @ clapham com every morning and all go to school together hit greegs buy our sweets and go to school onlt to see dat prick mr mc cann we use to be in the athletics team relay team stuz first leg me second leg cafun third leg and mc carthy 4th leg we where the best in wandsworth. Stuz also use to do the tripple jump only he for some reason could do it and he was the beat in the school he was in the cricket team and I had the ghonour of playing along side him in the school football team we won the catholic cup I scored and mc namee talent dats all I can say. Miss u stutz
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When dawn's first light turned into day,
Who knew an angel would soon call me away,
And though I did get to say Good-Bye,
I leave three more things to help you get by;
I leave courage, that you might see
your heart can rebuild a world without me
I leave you faith, that you might believe the
spirit will survive no matter how much we grieve
And I leave you love, to comfort you in it's healing
embrace until we meet again, in another place....
-Unknown-
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As i float along the milky way
I arrive at heavens door
And to my suprise theres people
And faces ive seen before
I feel happy and elated
A golden gate opened for me
As i step inside this place
Im amazed by what i see
Theres trees lined with gold
There flowers that never die
And teardrop dont exist
Im so happy, but i cant cry
Theres harps playing softly
And friends that i once knew
Hold out their hand to greet me
In the this land of sky blue
Theres a smell of the flowers
Its like nothing ive smelled before
Theres gold dust about my feet
And a welcome on my garden door
Yes i like this place called heaven
Even though i will miss you so
But i will visit you often
Even though you wont know
And as i thank my father beside me
For opening his golden gates
They toast a wine to greet me
The lord and my new found mates
Copyright Sharon Wheeler
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If I had one last day
to tell you what's inside.
I'd tell you that i'm sorry
for all the times i've lied.
I'd tell you that i need you
to hold my hand today.
I'd tell you that I love you
I'd ask you, please to stay.
You'd look at me and smile
The way you always would.
And say I'd love to stay
If only I really could.
Then you'd laugh the way you did
Whenever i was blue,
you'd wipe my tears and whisper softly
Don't cry I Love you too.
If I had one last day
I'd love you from the start
I'd stop hiding how i feel
I'd say whats in my heart.
If I had one last day
I'd say my last good-bye
And that even though you are far away
In my heart, you'll never die.
As The Sun Came Up This Morning
I Watched You There Below
Your Hearts Seemed Oh So Heavy
But There’s Something You Should Know
I’m Not Gone So Don’t Worry
I’m Just a Step Ahead
and I’m With You Every Single Day
As You Rise up from Your Bed
I Am the Sun That Warms You
I Am the Moon’s Soft Glow
I Am the Stars That Twinkle
And Light Your Path Below
So When At Times You Miss Me
Just Look For Me I’m there
For You Cannot Hide My Spirit
It Is with You Everywhere.
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