Arian Julius Arthur

AKA:Stutz...GONE WAY TOO SOON
My brother Arian Julius Arthur was born on 7th june 1984 to two loving parents Wilma and Bertram, he
has a sister Juanita(me)aged 28 and little brother Tirell aged 11(ages at the time of his death) and
many, aunties, uncles, cousins, Grandparents and friends Galore, also his girlfriend Shireen who he
cared a lot about. Arian grew up in Clapham, he went to triangle nursery and st.marys primary school
where he had many many friends and on to Salesian College secondary school where more friendships
grew, it was friendships that became like his extended family. Arians friends nicknamed him stutz
because he has a stutter and i can tell you it never detered him, he was always confident, strong
minded and a loving person who was always there for the people who meant a lot to him.

I can honestly say Arian is a decent, kind, funloving and special young man and no one will ever
meet anyone else like him. He has that certain something about him that made people drawn to him(the
turn out of his funeral confirmed this), he is such a funny character always made people laugh and
the cheeky smile he has...just seeing him smile made you smile. He was never short of female
attention and oh boy did he love the ladies but not one could compare to the love he has for our
mum, they were each others rock and he was constantly there for her and vice versa. My mum is
blessed as is he at the special relationship they have..that bond will never be broken because his
spirit still lives on and mum will meet him again one day.

Arians send off was one i have never seen before and dont believe i ever will. The church was
massive but so many people were standing outside, the queue went all the way out to the pavement,
the church was totally jam packed. On the day of Arians funeral it was forecast wind, rain and cold
but Arian is so special i just knew he would not let it rain on his day, It turned out to be a
beautiful spring summers day, the sun shone down so brightly on him and all of us. If there is such
a thing as good funeral then my brother surely had the best, its just a shame it wasnt his wedding,
birthday or his childs christening(the child he didnt get a chance to have).

He is also an avid Man U supporter( he be happy to know they won the premiership 2007). Arian came
through his fair share of hard times as he went through a mini breakdown a few years back, but
Arians strength in character ensured he pulled through and he is an inspiration to all that know
him(which makes it even harder to take that his life was ended so senselessly after all he had been
through and came through), He made the most of his life he went to egypt over a year ago and
Aiyanappa 2 months before he passed on and went out most weekends and done whatever made himself and
others happy. HE JUST LOVED LIVING HIS LIFE!! He never let me down he was always there for me and
looked out for me, always so protective even though i am 6 years olders than him(typical Ari). Our
little brother T misses the play fights, Pro revoluton games on the PS2 and the love they shared, it
breaks my heart to see him cry for his brother -Just 3 days before Arian died ,out of the blue he
called his little brother over and said -i know i dont say it often bro but you know i love you-dont
you\\\" and he gave him a big meaningful hug, thatsthe kind of person Ari is, and at least T
has that memory..i wasnt there but my mum said it was so nice to see and it made her get up and kiss
Ari.

Arian was taken away tragically and senselesly from us on the 18th Nov 2006. Those cowardly vermins
that call themselves men crept up behind him as the cowards the are and shot him twice in the BACK
while he was DANCING on night out celebrating his friends 23rd birthday in east london for what we
can determin was for no reason at all. (we can only wish he stayed in south like he usually did). He
never had a clue he was in danger, he was totally oblivious to it, the police say it was nothing
more than jealousy (shame on them) and his friends also say the same because he didnt get into an
argument with anyone, he was just dancing, talking to a girl, being himself(being Arian) and thats
what they couldnt handle. They stole his life with no regard for the people that loves and needs him
in their life, they have caused devastation that is undescribable and a constant ache that will
never leave us, our mum is in pieces but i know Arian will give her the strength to get her and us
through this in time. These vermins that took my brothers life were so jealous of him and knew they
could never walk in his shoes as he has a heart of gold, the looks and the confidence they could
never compete with. Although Arian is at peace we will miss him forever but i also know he is too
good for this world and for those of us who were blessed enough to know him-theres one thing they
cant steal away from us and that is our memories. Arian sure is Our Loss but heavens gain-heaven
have an angel. There is much more i can say but for all of us that know him PLEASE LET HIS MEMORY
AND SPIRIT LIVE ON..Arian will be missed but NEVER EVER forgotten. PEOPLE PLEASE START TALKING- MY
BROTHER CANNOT DIE IN VAIN, HE DID NOT DESERVE TO GO OUT THIS WAY, NOT HIM!! He had so much more to
live for..

I just want to say Arian came to my mum a few days before we lay him to rest and he told her -mum if
you could only see where i am mum, its so so nice mum- he said this 3 times to her, so those
bastards have not won, he is in a wonderful peaceful place that they will never get to because they
will be burning in hell. Arian will give us the strength to get through this until its time to meet
him again.

Justice will be done for you Ari...love you - its still so unbelievable that were stolen from all of
us and it will always be until i get to see your cheeky smile again x

Arians\\\'s trial was due to start in Jan 14th 08 and thrown out of court in that day due to
lack of evidence and an anonomus phone call made 3 days ealier- what a joke. So these murdering
scums are laughing at Ari,us and the crap justice system that lets them get away with cold blooded
murder. We are not giving up- Arian will get his trial one day.

People need to put down the guns & knives how many more inncoent people are going to lose their
lives to senseless violence, how many more parents have to bury their child due to evil actions of
others, how many more familes have to go through what my family is going through..WHEN THE HELL IS
IT GOING TO STOP!!...Too many young guys are losing their life for nothing and my brother is one of
them. It should have never happened to a soul like him.